Regardless of the “you” that you portray to the outside world, only you know at this point in time how you really feel. Many people do things in the course of living their lives that truly do not honour their highest selves. You know when you do them because you can feel it. That disparity that you feel when you live at odds with your highest self is often the cause behind most of the destructive and unresourceful things you see happening in your life. Sure, you can live your life any way you choose to live, and no one has the right to judge you, but you know when you are not living in alignment with your highest self, and you must live with the consequences. It will be difficult for you to live a better life if you continue to dishonour yourself, you will be at constant war with yourself, gaining and losing ground. Make it easy, honour yourself!